Well, I have done all as advised. I have Confluence.
When the music is played, there is no way to stop, pause a song.
The XBMC doesn't see the DVD rom, but it ejects it, when "eject" is pressed.
It plays any film from internal Hard disk with sound too.
Other than that its quite a nice program.
Regards and Thanks!
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