okay, i'm new to Sabayon and the whole gentoo attitude. i don't understand a lot of how this particular system works. i'm having some troubles with world updates and i'm getting very frustrated, i could use some advice and/or help.
the system is a Dell Inspiron 8200 laptop. 30gb hard drive, 1.7GHz P4-M, 512mb ram, nVidia NV11 GeForce2 32mb display adaptor, 15" 1600x1200 UXGA screen.
when i install Sabayon 4r1, everything goes smoothly. it installs KDE, detects and sets up networking including the onboard wireless, sets the display at 1600x1200 by default, and everything just plaiin works. this is why i chose Sabayon in the first place. of all the distributions i tried, this is the only one that just plain worked, straight out of the box. i tried doing a cold gentoo install, and never did get X working, much less the nVidia drivers. other distributions, i could get X, but couldn't get the nVidia stuff to work.
anyway, i keep trying to do a world update on this system, and i'm getting very frustrated. i need that laptop to just work, i don't have the time or the patience to muck about trying to fiddle with this and tamper with that, just getting X to work. i have done "equo update && equo world" a number of times now, each time after a cold fresh install. every single time, as soon as i reboot, i lose X. and nothing i do revives it. to get X back, i have to go back to the install DVD and do another cold install. i tried doing a recovery and that didn't work, it generated errors and halted the installer.
what am i doing wrong? i am no on the ninth or tenth world update after a fresh install. and once again, X stopped working on reboot. this most recent time, i put ">=xorg-drivers/nvidia-drivers-97.0.0" in /etc/portage/package.mask because i read on one of the forums that any nVidia drivers later than 96.x are incompatible with my display. well, that didn't help either. after equo update && equo world, once again X is screwed up.
this time, once it's booted up and i'm logged in as root, i did "equo install nvidia-drivers-96*" and let it go. when that was done, i ran startx, and it loaded XFCE4, which at least indicates that X now works. reboot, and sure enough, it loads the X login. however, it still isn't right. it doesn't pop straight to the X screen. it shows the nvidia loading screen, then pops back to the first virtual terminal and stays there to finish the loading sequence, but never goes back to the graphical login screen. i have to manually switch to it in order to use it.
why is it behaving this way, and how do i fix it? i'm not sure what the problem is, or how to address it, but is there a way to convince the updater not to install a newer driver which is known not to work with the existing hardware? and, can someone please tell me how to get it to switch to the GUI screen automatically at bootup?
thank you for taking the time to read through this whole thing.

